{"id":4040,"date":"2026-08-22T18:46:44","date_gmt":"2026-08-22T18:46:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thelb.al\/?p=4040"},"modified":"2026-08-22T18:46:44","modified_gmt":"2026-08-22T18:46:44","slug":"pse-po-dalim-nga-ekranet-per-tu-takuar-rreth-nje-libri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thelb.al\/?p=4040","title":{"rendered":"Pse po dalim nga ekranet p\u00ebr t\u2019u takuar rreth nj\u00eb libri?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dikur nj\u00eb <em>book club<\/em> n\u00ebnkuptonte disa njer\u00ebz, nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr dhe nj\u00eb bised\u00eb rreth tij. Sot mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb dark\u00eb me nj\u00eb shkrimtar, nj\u00eb <em>reading party<\/em> n\u00eb nj\u00eb bar, nj\u00eb fundjav\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb vil\u00eb, disa dit\u00eb udh\u00ebtim me njer\u00ebz q\u00eb nuk i ke takuar kurr\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb apo edhe nj\u00eb or\u00eb e kaluar n\u00eb heshtje, duke lexuar mes t\u00eb panjohurve.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb Britani, eventet e book club-eve t\u00eb listuara n\u00eb Eventbrite jan\u00eb rritur me 350% mes viteve 2019 dhe 2023. N\u00eb Lond\u00ebr, eventet letrare po t\u00ebrheqin nj\u00eb publik t\u00eb ri n\u00eb bare, galeri dhe hap\u00ebsira q\u00eb jo domosdoshm\u00ebrisht do t\u2019i lidhnim me nj\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje kushtuar librave.<\/p>\n<p>Ka di\u00e7ka interesante n\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb. Kurr\u00eb nuk kemi pasur kaq shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur p\u00ebr libra pa takuar ask\u00ebnd. BookTok, Bookstagram, Goodreads dhe klubet virtuale mund t\u00eb na lidhin n\u00eb pak sekonda me mij\u00ebra lexues. E megjithat\u00eb, nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e kultur\u00ebs s\u00eb leximit po shkon n\u00eb drejtimin e kund\u00ebrt: nga ekrani te tavolina, nga komenti te biseda, nga njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb ndjekim te njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb kemi p\u00ebrball\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nj\u00eb histori shum\u00eb m\u00eb e vjet\u00ebr se Instagrami<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ideja, n\u00eb fakt, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aspak e re. N\u00eb Londr\u00ebn e shekullit XVIII, Bluestockings, rrethi i lidhur me gra si Elizabeth Montagu dhe Elizabeth Vesey, mblidhej n\u00eb sallone p\u00ebr t\u00eb diskutuar let\u00ebrsi, filozofi, art dhe politik\u00eb. Asokohe, kur grat\u00eb kishin akses t\u00eb kufizuar n\u00eb institucionet e dijes, k\u00ebto takime krijuan hap\u00ebsira ku ato mund t\u00eb merrnin pjes\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn intelektuale dhe t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtonin marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me nj\u00ebra-tjetr\u00ebn. Pothuajse tre shekuj m\u00eb von\u00eb, forma \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-4043\" src=\"https:\/\/thelb.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/66230ebda9a866fca9fca676_April-18_Conversations-1024x683.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sot, Her Literary Society nd\u00ebrthur librat me udh\u00ebtimet dhe takimet, nd\u00ebrsa britanikja Ladies Who Lit organizon <em>retreats<\/em> dhe pushime letrare. Pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebset mund t\u00eb mb\u00ebrrijn\u00eb vet\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb disa dit\u00eb duke lexuar, sh\u00ebtitur, ngr\u00ebn\u00eb dhe biseduar me njer\u00ebz q\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb nuk i njihnin.<\/p>\n<p>Ndoshta libri e b\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb. Kur dy njer\u00ebz kan\u00eb lexuar t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn histori, nuk kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb ta fillojn\u00eb njohjen nga zero. Nj\u00eb personazh, nj\u00eb fjali apo nj\u00eb ide mund t\u00eb hap\u00eb nj\u00eb bised\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrndryshe do t\u00eb k\u00ebrkonte shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr koh\u00eb. Libri b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar nga <em>small talk<\/em> te nj\u00eb bised\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb kuptim, book club-i i ri nuk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb vet\u00ebm me d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb lexuar m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb edhe me d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur njer\u00ebz me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt kemi gjera t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p><strong>T\u00eb lexosh vet\u00ebm, s\u00eb bashku<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ndoshta shembulli m\u00eb interesant i k\u00ebtij paradoksi \u00ebsht\u00eb Silent Book Club, i nisur n\u00eb San Francisco n\u00eb vitin 2012. Nuk ka nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr t\u00eb detyruesh\u00ebm dhe as nj\u00eb diskutim formal. Secili sjell librin e vet, njer\u00ebzit mblidhen dhe, p\u00ebr nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb takimit, thjesht lexojn\u00eb s\u00eb bashku n\u00eb heshtje. Modeli \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrhapur nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtarisht dhe disa prej takimeve t\u00eb tij mbledhin dhjet\u00ebra njer\u00ebz.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb pamje t\u00eb par\u00eb duket pothuajse e pakuptimt\u00eb. Pse t\u00eb dal\u00ebsh nga sht\u00ebpia p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb pran\u00eb njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb nj\u00eb aktivitet q\u00eb mund ta b\u00ebsh shum\u00eb mir\u00eb vet\u00ebm?<\/p>\n<p>Rritja e k\u00ebtyre komuniteteve p\u00ebrkon edhe me nj\u00eb interes m\u00eb t\u00eb gjer\u00eb p\u00ebr forma socializimi q\u00eb nuk kalojn\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebrmes ekranit. <em>Run clubs<\/em>, grupe krijuese, darka kolektive dhe komunitete t\u00eb tjera po p\u00ebrdorin shpesh rrjetet sociale p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn e asaj q\u00eb presim prej tyre: p\u00ebr t\u2019i nxjerr\u00eb njer\u00ebzit nga interneti dhe p\u00ebr t\u2019i takuar n\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kur leximi b\u00ebhet edhe lifestyle<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sigurisht, book club-i i vitit 2026 nuk ka shp\u00ebtuar nga estetika. Vila historike, biblioteka t\u00eb bukura, tavolina t\u00eb shtruara, filxhan\u00eb \u00e7aji, qirinj, taccuin\u00eb, libra t\u00eb zgjedhur me kujdes, yoga n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes dhe or\u00eb leximi n\u00eb heshtje. <em>Reading retreat<\/em> mund t\u00eb duket po aq mir\u00eb n\u00eb Instagram sa nj\u00eb fundjav\u00eb wellness.<\/p>\n<p>Edhe moda e ka kuptuar fuqin\u00eb e librit si objekt kulturor. Dua Lipa, Kaia Gerber dhe Reese Witherspoon kan\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar komunitete t\u00eb m\u00ebdha rreth book club-eve t\u00eb tyre, nd\u00ebrsa sht\u00ebpit\u00eb e mod\u00ebs po e afrojn\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb let\u00ebrsin\u00eb me bot\u00ebn e tyre. N\u00eb Milano, Miu Miu Literary Club e vendos librin n\u00eb dialog me artin, performanc\u00ebn dhe bisedat mes shkrimtareve dhe figurave t\u00eb kultur\u00ebs. N\u00eb vitet e fundit edhe marka si Dior dhe Coach e kan\u00eb p\u00ebrdorur librin brenda koleksioneve dhe bashk\u00ebpunimeve t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n<p>Kjo i jep fenomenit edhe nj\u00eb an\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb diskutueshme. N\u00eb momentin kur leximi b\u00ebhet lifestyle, ekziston rreziku q\u00eb edhe ai t\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr estetik\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u konsumuar. Libri i duhur mbi tavolin\u00eb, biblioteka perfekte p\u00ebr t\u2019u fotografuar, kopertina q\u00eb shkon bukur me filxhanin e kafes\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundojm\u00eb duke performuar iden\u00eb e t\u00eb lexuarit me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn leht\u00ebsi me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn performojm\u00eb udh\u00ebtimin, ushqimin apo m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn si vishemi.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7far\u00eb mbetet pasi fotografia \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb dhe telefoni \u00ebsht\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb? Ndoshta luksi \u00ebsht\u00eb koha. Koha p\u00ebr t\u00eb lexuar pa kontrolluar nj\u00eb njoftim p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrfunduar nj\u00eb mendim. N\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb cop\u00ebtuar nga mesazhet, <em>scrolling<\/em>-u dhe konkurrenca e vazhdueshme p\u00ebr v\u00ebmendjen ton\u00eb, disa or\u00eb t\u00eb pand\u00ebrprera me nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr dhe me njer\u00ebz t\u00eb tjer\u00eb mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb v\u00ebrtet nj\u00eb form\u00eb luksi.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb Itali, kjo d\u00ebshir\u00eb po merr gjithashtu forma t\u00eb ndryshme. Krahas Miu Miu Literary Club, komunitete t\u00eb pavarura si <em>Viaggiare coi Libri<\/em>, krijuar nga Giulia Buzzoni dhe Gaia Lapasini, organizojn\u00eb <em>reading parties<\/em>, piknik\u00eb, grupe leximi dhe fundjava t\u00eb t\u00ebra rreth librave. <em>Barattoli&amp;Co<\/em> e nd\u00ebrthur book club-in me <em>retreats<\/em>, darka dhe aktivitete t\u00eb frym\u00ebzuara nga tema e takimit.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4044\" src=\"https:\/\/thelb.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/b67496d8-fd2d-456c-a5e1-37fd0fe49181_1200x1500.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"1000\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Formatet mund t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb, por d\u00ebshira pas tyre duket e nj\u00ebjt\u00eb. Ndoshta nuk po shohim thjesht rikthimin e book club-it. Po shohim rikthimin e leximit si nj\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb q\u00eb kishte humbur, pas vitesh n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb e madhe e formimit dhe socializimit ton\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb zhvendosur n\u00eb ekran.<\/p>\n<p>Bluestockings nuk do ta njihnin WhatsApp-in, BookTok-un apo nj\u00eb <em>reading retreat<\/em>. Por do ta njihnin shum\u00eb mir\u00eb fuqin\u00eb e t\u00eb mbledhurit rreth librave. Sepse leximi nuk na jep vet\u00ebm histori; formon mendimin, nd\u00ebrsa biseda e sfidon dhe e pasuron at\u00eb. Dhe m\u00ebnyra si mendojm\u00eb, her\u00ebt a von\u00eb, ndikon edhe n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb zgjedhim, \u00e7far\u00eb lexojm\u00eb, kujt i besojm\u00eb, me k\u00eb rrethohemi dhe si duam t\u00eb jetojm\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p><strong>-THELB,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dikur nj\u00eb book club n\u00ebnkuptonte disa njer\u00ebz, nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr dhe nj\u00eb bised\u00eb rreth tij. Sot mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb dark\u00eb me nj\u00eb shkrimtar, nj\u00eb reading party n\u00eb nj\u00eb bar, nj\u00eb fundjav\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb vil\u00eb, disa dit\u00eb udh\u00ebtim me njer\u00ebz q\u00eb nuk i ke takuar kurr\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb apo edhe nj\u00eb or\u00eb e kaluar n\u00eb heshtje, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":4042,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[57],"tags":[],"tmauthors":[64],"class_list":["post-4040","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-jetese"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thelb.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4040","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thelb.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thelb.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thelb.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thelb.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4040"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thelb.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4040\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4045,"href":"https:\/\/thelb.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4040\/revisions\/4045"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thelb.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4042"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thelb.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4040"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thelb.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4040"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thelb.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4040"},{"taxonomy":"tmauthors","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thelb.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftmauthors&post=4040"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}